(this post was co-written with a fellow healer based in Vancouver, Canada, Rémi Thivierge MSW RCSW RMFT)
We’ve all heard for years about the December 2012 phenomenon – will the world end? Will we be catapulted into some alternate universe? Are the ETs finally going to cart us away?
As we live further into the energies of this year, and into 2013 and beyond, we believe (as do other teachers and authors) that what is actually happening is that higher frequencies of light and love (God/Spirit energy) are bombarding our planet in waves, bringing us perhaps the greatest opportunity we’ve ever had as humans on all our lifetimes here on planet Earth, and also paradoxically bringing us some of the greatest suffering we’ve ever experienced – if we don’t know how to ride these waves.
As teachers and healers, we spend hours each day focused on our growth, connecting with Spirit, and helping others to do the same. And we still find ourselves getting overwhelmed by these new energies at times, and find ourselves falling into old habits and patterns as we try to cope. So we are inspired to write this to help those of you experiencing similar things without the kind of support system you need right now not only to cope, but also to thrive in these challenging times.
First, what exactly is happening? We believe Earth is a planet that has invited souls from all over many galaxies to come and learn, grow, and experience life in a realm of duality, polarity, and contrast – believing ourselves separate from God/Spirit – and eventually waking up to the fact that we are God, and living in bodies with this awareness, ending duality within ourselves and living in the bliss of Oneness together.
Well….the experiment here has had its difficulties, as we all well know. The human mind and ego proved perhaps more tenacious and clever than the designers of this place had anticipated, or perhaps it’s all part of the plan.
As there are forces of light (Spirit, ascended masters, higher beings of various realms) there are also certainly forces of darkness (beings from other planets who aren’t particularly interested in having a planet where love and union are thriving, beings from this planet who want to maintain the old order of power, domination and control, souls not in bodies who are taking our energy, etc.). In 2012, the intensity of both of these forces (light and dark) have increased dramatically, and seem to be continuing to do so. So what do we do?
First, let’s start with what not to do!
The worst things we can do in these times are to:
• Tell ourselves scary stories about what’s happening to us and the world, rather than seeing that the Earth is simply undergoing an awakening process that brings up our individual and collective fears and old stuck emotions and energies for the greater purpose of healing us all
• Blame others or judge ourselves for our experiences
• Run away from our feelings and avoid growth in all the ways we know how to (old destructive habits) – you will be missing the very reason you came to Earth this time!
• Resist growth and try to recreate your “old life,” the one that is dying, staying stuck in old ways of being rather than letting go and surrendering to the death/rebirth process that is occurring and will bring you great gifts if you let it
Unfortunately, many people are doing these very things, thus slowing down their own growth process, causing huge amounts of suffering for themselves and others around them, and creating large amounts of toxic blame, anger, hatred, etc. that is floating around our environment, which you are also probably feeling.
What we have found works best are to keep in mind and practice the following.
First, let go of fear – you are safe as a soul. Whatever is happening in your life right now (loss of job, relationship, or financial security, death or serious illness of loved ones, your own serious illness, waves of extremely intense emotion such as grief, terror, distrust, anger), it is all part of a greater flow that you are a part of, and will ultimately bring great growth if you allow it to.
Second, know you are not alone in experiencing all of these things – look around you – is anyone you know getting an “easy ride” right now? This is all part of a greater story you are in, you are not being “punished” for past misdeeds, you are not a hopeless failure, you haven’t done it all wrong. This is par for the course on Earth right now.
Third, call on high beings for help. (These beings are universal and can be called on no matter what your religious or spiritual beliefs – they serve us all unconditionally). Some ones we find invaluable are:
• Archangel Vywamus: This archangel helps with expanding your energy body and allowing you to integrate and embody the higher, more powerful energies coming in. Simply ask Vywamus to open your sushumna (your central energy channel) and your nadis (smaller energy channels distributing energy through the body) to the level that is for your highest good. You can do this as often as you like (we do this several times a week at least), and definitely do so when you feel overwhelmed or overloaded with scattered energy.
• Archangel Michael: For protection against lower/dark energies, courage to move through obstacles, and strength to meet your challenges. Ask Archangel Michael to be with you as you move through your day, to protect you when you are afraid or feel negative energies around you, and to guard your energy field as you sleep.
• Archangel Metatron: Metatron is an Archangel of new energies, Indigo children and advanced souls, and works especially well to help cleanse and align your chakra system, and will help you balance your energy field.
• Kuan Yin: a goddess of compassion, she can help soothe hurt feelings and emotional wounds, and helps you move past blame and anger to compassion and love. Call on her anytime you need to heal a hurt or have more compassion for yourself or others. You can also ask her to help others you know are suffering.
Fourth, separate your feelings from your thoughts about what’s going on and just feel! As a favorite teacher of mine says, “feel the feelings, drop the story.” Most of us have not been taught this, but we can survive any intense feelings just fine – they won’t kill us, they won’t even hurt us, and the very good news is, as we allow them to flow through us, they free up old stuck energy that has possibly been there for lifetimes, leaving more room in us for connection, joy, and love, letting more light in.
Here’s the process in a nutshell: when you feel an intense feeling coming up (let’s say it’s grief), our minds immediately go to work and begin telling us “why” we’re feeling this way – and it’s always something outside of ourselves. “I’m so sad that John left me. I knew it was going to end this way. I should have known better than to risk my heart in love again. What a fool I am! Well, I’ll know better next time, etc. etc.”).
While the mind is busy telling us a terrible story about ourselves, others, and the world, what is happening to the feeling? It sits there, festering, not moving, not healing, not going anywhere. Then our story gets so terrible we usually work ourselves into anger and start blaming, or we do any number of things to shut down (go have a beer, watch TV, distract ourselves with something that temporarily makes us feel “better” but doesn’t resolve the unfelt feeling). So, we create another scenario that brings up the feeling (remember, it’s still in there, as stuck energy), then we do the same thing, on and on, over and over again. So, nothing heals! And in these times, with the feelings coming up to be healed at a fast and furious pace, the old ways just aren’t working anymore, and may people are losing their ability to cope.
The remedy for this is simple: just feel what you’re feeling and when the story starts to play in your head, as it always will, simply know it’s a movie that your ego/mind is making up, it’s not real, don’t give it any attention, and put your feel awareness on what you are feeling, the pure sensation of feeling. Breathe as you feel. Stay with it. It will get very intense for a little while (in my experience, sometimes just a few seconds, sometimes a minute or two) and you may feel like you’re dying (this sounds scary but it’s just the ego screaming at you while you heal), then, whoosh, it moves through you and it’s over. What is left is your natural state: more joy, more peace.
This process, while simple, is pure magic. It will keep you out of all kinds of messes we create when we follow our mind’s toxic stories, and worse, carry them out in word or deed.
Blessings and peace,
Jill Miller MA and Rémi Thivierge MSW RCSW RMFT
Jill Miller MA, is a transformative counselor, guide and healer with 18 years years experience. She works worldwide with indigos and sensitive souls, helping them find their soul purpose and the divine blueprint for their lives, lives, helping clear what stands in the way of them giving their gifts to the world, and finding their joy in the process. She also has experience in guiding rites of passage (Vision Quests) for youth and adults, energy healing, and coaching through life transitions and emotional and spiritual transformations. For more information, go to http://www.soulradiance.com or email jill@soulradiance.com.
Rémi Thivierge MSW RSW RMFT is an intuitive transformational healer with 35 years experience in the helping field. He is the author of of “Profound Healing for Indigo Children &Youth…and Other
Sensitive Souls”. He specializes in helping people to resolve difficulties at multiple levels that most helpers are unable to assist with, such as past lifetime vows, historical trauma at the DNA level, etc. He also assists people to go to the next level of their spiritual development. He is the director of Indigo Soul Work Training Program and Phoenix Vision Society, which assists devastated people in the Third World. He is an accredited therapist and trainer with the American and Canadian Associations for Marriage and Family Therapy. For more info, go to http://www.indigosoulwork.com or contact Rémi at indigosoulwork@gmail.com .